Props for A Book

I don't know if any of you saw my upset post last night.  It was basically a list of complaints that I couldn't say to my husband without laying them out somewhere first and taking out the malice that I felt because of them.  I didn't manage to make all of my points but I did make it clear I was pretty upset about the fact that we just spent a week off of our time consuming lives (Spring Break) and he didn't spend any quality time with me.  We didn't cuddle, we didn't play games, we didn't do anything of the sort.  I was upset and only today (now that he's actually doing everything... he usually does) do I really realize why.

There's a book called The 5 Love Languages.  My older sister gave it to me before I got married and I read it then placed it aside.  About two months ago I went back and reread it.  I even did the survey at the back and was very surprised to find that my "Love Language" was Physical Touch.  This surprises me because I had so many internet relationships.  Though it does help explain why they always fell apart in a fiery fashion. 

Taylor's love language is quality time though his more a little bit of everything rather than one overwhelming language.  He was still geting everything from me though I tend to withdraw when I'm not feeling good.  Thus... it makes sense.  I deny him his love language and he denies me mine. 

Today was different though.  I'm not sure why but after one argument I went into the bedroom and closed the door behind me.  Taylor came back in and managed to lure me back out.  We cuddled till Brother Bear 2 finished and then I went back in for a nap.  Taylor woke me up when I asked him to.  Then sporadically he comes over and kisses me randomly, gives a hug which in turn makes me reciprocate and even want to watch The Fab 5 documentary with him.  (It's about  5 freshman basketball players back in the day.)